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Monday, August 14, 2006

One for one?

My people ...how una dey? yup i am back... I had a great weekend...i experienced quite a bit this past weekend and I was reminded of a few things i have taken for granted for a while. As i post this topic, i must say its an ongoing battle, whether to post the what i experienced this past weekend or seek comments on something that seems to bother a lot of people...

I'll reserve what i experienced this past weekend for another blog....

Well of late a number of people have asked me these questions "Miguel do you think there's only one person for each of us?" "do you think its possible to miss Mr. right or Ms. right?" "would you go for compartible or complimentary?"

I'll like to know your thoughts. What do you think? I look forward to your comments before i share my thoughts on these questions. Thank you in advance for your comments.

14 Comments:

  • At 4:05 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I dont believe that line at all.God has given us all the power to make choices. Whoever we end up getting married to is a matter of choice!
    That is the reason why we see guys dating about three girls at once. Ask him his reasons,he'll say he is comparing and will choose when it is time for him to ''settle down''. Same goes for ladies.

    Meanwhile Miguel, i intend marrying him o.What do i do? U want make i call you.Lol

     
  • At 8:10 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I think perhaps there is one person for us at any given period. For example my father. he was married to a lady who later passed, then a couple of years later he met and married my mother. Which means that depending on what period of time, a different person was "the one".
    I believe it IS possible to meet Mr. Right-- he might not be Mr. Right to everyone, but he would be to me...
    I would go for both compartibility and complimentary, depending on what the issue is. Compartability in terms of spirituality, and complimentary when it comes to my flaws... i.e procrastination...

     
  • At 8:46 AM , Blogger Noella said...

    Hmm, I don't know whether there is only one person for me, but I know that there is DEFINITELY only one person for my boyfriend, ME!!! (hehehehe)

     
  • At 8:50 AM , Blogger Biodun said...

    I dont believe that there is only ONE person for each of us. People might think one missed Mr. right or Ms. right, but they ain't God so frankly its just talk. Compartibility, complimentary, that n much more is important in my books.

     
  • At 2:16 PM , Blogger The Life of a Stranger called me said...

    If you Walk in the path set out for you by God, you are more than Likely to meet that 'one' person the Lord has for you.
    I heard a sermon the other day by TD Jakes who reminded us that God is God and even in our mistakes we are still in His will, and because He is in control of things and does not rejoice in our sadness. It will not please him for us to loose out on what He has for us, and so more than likely If you are in His will, it is more than likley that you will not miss out on what He has for you.

    Remeber when He spoke to Mary, He also spoke to Joseph, he is not an author of confusion.

    There are people of whom their presence in your life has been a blessing brought by God, but there will be a time when their purpose is fulfilled and its time for them to move on. Let us touch on Naomi, Ruth and Opah. Opah was a blessing to Naomi, but a time came when she had to leave. But Ruth believed and knew that her destiny lied with alining herself with Naomi, and the Lord gave her favour and blessed her.

    And so to sum up, if you align yourself with the will of God, He will align Himself with you, and the chance of you loosing out on his purpose is infintely reduced.

    I hope this helps.

     
  • At 3:00 PM , Blogger Miguel said...

    I am determined to give this topic a couple more days before i say anything. The comments so far are really interesting...

    @Temmy ...whats your email address?
    @The life of a stranger called me... your comment has me itching to respond but i'll hold off for now... kai u've gotten me all excited!!!

     
  • At 3:15 PM , Blogger NaijaBloke said...

    I dont believe that line at all as well,but I will agree with Belle's line that"perhaps there is one person for us at any given period"

    I have seen a couple of cases where the man's first wife died and he remarried and the new wife is as compartible as the first with the guy.

    Almost everybody on this blogsville has been in love and gotten their heart broken,but still get to meet someone and fall in love again even if it is lust sef.u still got a connection that made u feel towards the other person.

    Like the saying goes "nobody is born to be poor,but u build ur own future with ur own hands with little help by other people".When Nick lachey and Jessica Simpson got married,it was like the best match ever,BUT!!!

    Refering to the saying above,u also build ur misfortune as well if thatz the way u want to go.So meeting the person that is made for u is a myth,but u can always meet someone to take u for who u r and understand u.

     
  • At 4:12 PM , Blogger The Life of a Stranger called me said...

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  • At 4:14 PM , Blogger The Life of a Stranger called me said...

    Please!! how long would I have to wait to hear the rest of the story, I am desperately eager. I hope I shan't have to wait too long.

    I also forgot to add, we should rejoice in goodbyes, and I do not mean it in the anti-social sense, but we must not beg someone who wants to leave to stay. Always remeber their purpose is fulfied. NEXT ONE PLEASE!!!

     
  • At 5:23 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    email addy is folalinks@yahoo.com.

     
  • At 7:38 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    No need to email,he doesnt need to be hooked anynore. He is cheating,i found out.Sob sob sob.

     
  • At 11:59 AM , Blogger Miguel said...

    I'll dedicate a blog to you today! stay tuned!

     
  • At 3:40 PM , Blogger NaijaBloke said...

    Haba Temmy he is cheating ke ..Tell me u r joking

     
  • At 8:16 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I believe that a person can be happy with any one of several people with whom he/she is compatible. However, I do believe there is a good, better, best. Someone may be good for you, but not necessarily the best. So finding the best should be a goal, in my opinion. But note that the nest often is not who you expect to be the best, so this is where you need to involve GOD.

     

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