tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-102912852024-03-14T04:54:42.513-05:00Where do I startMiguelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08853981491215857100noreply@blogger.comBlogger120125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-20709526064576487282011-09-29T17:13:00.000-05:002011-09-29T11:14:23.157-05:00Inter-tribal dating/MarriagesYes!!! I am going to write about it! I realize we all have varied opinions on this topic but my aim is to use this medium to express mine. Some will definitely kick against my point of view and I welcome that debate but I am sincerely hoping that after reading this, people will be more open minded and hopefully in some small way, we'll start to see a change in this world we live in..particularlyMiguelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08853981491215857100noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-34607780421613361702011-06-16T07:14:00.008-05:002011-06-16T21:35:18.028-05:00Mugufied: what next?Welcome to a day in the life of a mugu. When it comes to matters pertaining to relationships, the opposite sex or friends, I've been called naive and a few times innocent but for the first time last night, a friend (lets call her the Gemini mother) called me a mugu!!! Please readers help me judge if in fact I am a certified mugu or not...having asked this of you, if after reading this you feel Miguelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08853981491215857100noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-684322519425916732011-06-07T03:05:00.003-05:002011-06-08T17:30:43.568-05:00No titleI typically have a title for what I am going to write but today is different. Different for many reasons but I'll focus on one in particular. Over the years, I've heard people say it's easy to give advice than to take, it's easy to judge when you are not the one experiencing it and it's easier said than done...These words have been used under various circumstances and situations but for the most Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-18761188889342494102011-05-15T15:27:00.005-05:002011-09-29T11:10:32.672-05:00A New PageOK so I know some of you have a ton of questions...is he really coming out of retirement? Will he stay this time or run away after a couple of posts? Well for the time being I am back and I plan to be more consistent with my posts. Having said that I've also decided to use this blog to address a couple of questions/messages I get in regards to relationships. For those of you who don't know how toMiguelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08853981491215857100noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-26026328270403647132010-10-07T09:23:00.000-05:002010-10-07T09:26:48.188-05:00Thinking of coming out of retirementSo I am thinking of coming out of retirement. It has been two whole years (good grief! how time flies!!!). Life has been great! I've learn't a lot, seen a lot and heard enough! Should I return? Hmmmm ...Miguelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08853981491215857100noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-37604606609538229892008-10-02T08:34:00.002-05:002008-10-02T09:09:04.198-05:00God loves me!I am alive today because of the love God has for me. I take a lot of things for granted at times but after my experience this past Saturday/Sunday, my words will mean more and my actions a lot more from this day forth. I feel blessed that God in His infinite goodness and mercy, has chosen to keep me alive and as I live, I'll continue to seek His purpose for my life, continue to work towards Miguelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08853981491215857100noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-67714819103535619862008-09-18T13:00:00.004-05:002008-09-20T04:42:51.151-05:00Andrew no check out ooo!!!So I've been gone like forever and only a hand full of people have asked after me...What rubbish!!! Where is the love that we share...What happened to for better or for worse...I thought this was a marriage...I the writer and you the readers vow never to separate but to support each other through thick and thin. Oh well at least now I know not to feel bad and not to rush to post to keep you guys Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-8373294715439804542008-08-04T10:57:00.003-05:002011-06-08T17:52:58.041-05:00On the way to your destiny"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."Jeremiah 29:11I sat back this weekend,just thinking of how blessed I am as a child of the Most High God, where He has brought me from and where He is taking me. As I sat appreciating the wonders of His work and how my best laid plans are nothing compared to Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-79153533160250003802008-07-28T10:51:00.003-05:002008-07-28T19:29:53.763-05:00Picture Prospect ClubYou want to join...Membership is free...opportunities with this club are endless. You've just had a preview of the club I've been invited to join. I must say it's always nice when folks think your profile fits the caliber of folks they are trying to attract. While my mates are getting invites into the inner circle of the Bill Gates of this world, I am getting invited to join the Picture Prospect Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-37162057793413611992008-07-16T23:42:00.002-05:002008-07-17T00:12:11.319-05:00Nothing do you!!!Wow!!! It a miracle!!! I found my way to my blog!!!...Lol...I realize I have been gone for a while...Wish I could blame it on something...hmmm...let's see...Yeahhh...Face book!!! It's taken over the little social life I have...I hardly feel the need to blog these days. I must confess I've thought about shutting down this blog but I can't seem to do it...I guess it remains the only authentic way ISpicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-71344976187046339502008-05-21T11:05:00.005-05:002008-05-21T23:10:28.802-05:00DDD!!!Yeah yeah yeah...I've been gone for a while but folks you can't blame this brother ooo ... The past three weeks have been hectic...I've had to make some whirlwind trips, dance like music was ending tomorrow, network like rapture was about to happen. I mean as I sit here typing this, I am getting ready to jet out tomorrow. A friend said with the way I have been traveling, the current credit crisisSpicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-50625444981044352302008-05-14T23:52:00.002-05:002008-05-14T23:57:31.950-05:00Tireeeeed!!!Just got into town from a quick, exhaustive trip. I need to get some rest but I'll be back in a day with some gist. I must say anyone planning on moving back to Nigeria, should take a trip to New York first. Rent a car and experience the driving there...if after such an experience you are convinced you can handle that on a daily basis, then you are prepared for Nigeria!Anyway not to spoil the Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-6942328932528366752008-05-08T04:22:00.003-05:002008-05-08T04:51:29.229-05:00Alive and Well!!!I realize I haven't been on here for close to two weeks. All is well!! I'll probably put something up when I settle back in next week. Happy Mothers day to all the mothers.My mum's birthday is on Saturday... Happy birthday Mum!!! Thanks for being an inspiration and my biggest fan. Those times I've faltered, you've stood firmly by me, reminding me of my strengths in the face of moments when I am Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-35718817004782169982008-04-20T22:07:00.007-05:002008-04-21T12:39:32.814-05:00A letter to the one I lostI wish I could go back to the first day we spokeI wish I could have given you a clean slateNot one filled with the hurts of my past, the cares of today or the fear of tomorrowI wish I could have taken down the walls that surround my heartLet you into my world and made it our world.I wish I appreciated your concernsI wish I realized your words were true and cherished your time just a little Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-50205477493958700992008-04-17T08:50:00.002-05:002008-04-17T08:56:01.774-05:00Will be back shortly!I realize I have been gone for a couple of weeks now. I must say though I have a couple of things to write about, just getting myself in the mood to write has been difficult. Anyway, I'll take a couple of days off...I am flying out today and will definitely be back to my old self when I return. Until then, please enjoy these videosSpicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-31001447697959528762008-04-07T11:09:00.004-05:002008-04-07T11:55:35.102-05:00Incredible God, Incredible Praise!First off, I want to thank everyone for their kind words on here. I want to thank those friends that also made an effort to reach me, the instant messages, calls and emails. Words cannot express how grateful I am.This has been an interesting and challenging period for me. For the most part, by the grace and mercy of God, I have remained strong but I must confess there have been times I've felt Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-84555267700110367172008-04-01T10:34:00.003-05:002008-04-01T11:23:36.681-05:00I Knew!I knew something had happened when my phone rang so early in the morning. I knew! I knew it couldn't be good when after ignoring the initial call, it rang again and again. I knew! As I reached for the phone, I hoped it was a caller who had mistakenly dialed my number. But I knew!I knew because the last time we spoke, I sensed you were hiding something from me. As you demanded we express the way Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-38078219800805519902008-03-31T10:04:00.003-05:002008-03-31T10:07:31.278-05:00My promiseI know I promised to put up the "how to deal with an ugly break up" post today but I just got some bad news a few minutes ago. I really can't think at the moment. Just felt I should put this up at least since I made a promise to put up the post today.Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-33582356703410522192008-03-26T15:16:00.002-05:002008-03-26T15:41:38.777-05:00Update Already!!!You've reached my voice mail, please leave your name, number and a brief message and I'll be sure to get back to you...alternatively, you can call back. Ahhhh...Lol...Don't mind me folks...Sorry I've been gone for a minute...I am sick AGAIN! it's really strange...I hardly fall sick (I go years without falling sick) but within the first three months of this year, I've been sick three times alreadyMiguelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08853981491215857100noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-90992341029602747782008-03-16T23:27:00.004-05:002008-03-17T10:20:46.351-05:00Happy Travels!So I finally figured where I got the phrase "My personal People"...I got it from Cherub!!! After typing it, I spent the next few minutes trying to figure out where I got it. Anyway, I am back in my base after taking a few days off to visit my second base. I must say this by far has been the best trip I've taken back to the "Windy City"...the weather was great, made new friends, hung out like it Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-73013794395574888482008-03-13T16:48:00.002-05:002008-03-13T16:58:59.172-05:00Will update soon!My personal people (don't ask me where I heard that)...I am currently out of town...Got a lot of gist...I'll update when I get back to my base. I trust you all are well....Have you guys seen the 22 year old babe "Kristen"? WOW!!! Man some babes amaze me... At times I wonder if some women look at themselves in the mirror to appreciate the work of God... Ah! Ah!! that babe is hotttttt!!! She could Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-72867816466570532582008-03-05T21:54:00.006-05:002008-03-06T01:09:34.732-05:00Self -WorthGrowing up, I was told if you don't know your worth, you can't complain if you are treated like garbage. Also learnt quite early that the value you place on yourself would determine to a great degree, how successful and fulfilled you are in life. Over the years, I have held on to these words and in everything I do, I have made a conscious effort to ensure that I am not selling myself short. So Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-39591258439467501352008-03-03T09:16:00.003-05:002008-03-03T11:07:29.785-05:00ReconnectionsWow! we are already in the third month of the year...isn't it crazy how time flies? I still have a lot to do and there never seems to be enough hours in a day. How many of you agree we need to amend the number of hours in a day? probably have 30 hour days...what do you think? Anyway, I trust everyone is well...I realize while some friends are enjoying the sun, others are feeling the cold...not toSpicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-86888180913690456392008-02-22T08:04:00.005-05:002008-02-22T15:23:03.074-05:00DaddyAn additional year has passed. I don't believe the dead read but I choose to remember today, this way because I know somewhere around the world, someone else is experiencing some type of hurt. Like myself, it could be the hurt of losing a loved one, it could be from losing something or just the struggles of life. I miss my dad!It's been sixteen years and as much as I'd love to write a tear Spicyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12958389937671432905noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10291285.post-8234232622082608632008-02-21T02:40:00.001-05:002008-02-21T08:14:25.252-05:00The teacher and her studentSo no new post for four days and no one bothered to send a search party to locate me? What is going on peeps? where is the care? Forget love 'cause I trust some of you hate my guts...lol Anyway, I have been sick since my last post...actually restricted to my bed...I am still recovering but couldn't help but give into the itch to put up something. My friends say I sound sweet when I am sick..I Miguelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08853981491215857100noreply@blogger.com4